I have never had thought I would write some thing which is apart from my real life happening. Just before you could start this blog I want you to revert some of your memories. When do you feel the contentment to be peak in our life? Is it when you saw your mom’s face who comes to receive you after your school hours when you were in kinder garden?? Or is it the moment you enjoyed with your friends in your school picnic? Or is it the first proposal you made to a girl/boy? Or is it the happy school days where you sat on last bench to pass comments on teachers? Or is it the pride that you passed the +2 examination with good marks than you expected? Or is it the achievement that you got a job in your pocket after a great enjoyment of schooling years????? According to me no one can pick one as special moment for him/her. Happiness of your life comes along with your voyage and it’s not a destination. The deeper fact is it’s not the participation of your soul alone it’s also your parents, friends and relatives who gave you such moments to scribble something in your dairy of life. If you have a amusement now when you stare at the sky with a feel it’s worth living this life and I’ve peoples around me to shore up for a greater destiny you are the champ!!!!!. There are also other sides in your voyage to think about.
I’m not a great person to write about relationship but still I thought to share my views and go deeper in my thoughts to explore how relations work in real life. Have you ever thought these relations (parents, friends and relatives) would show you the much of a love in the way you didn’t covet?!?!?!?!?. Of course no one would. There are at times where you haven’t understood much about the relation or any of the relation haven’t understood much about you. At those times when you find a solution for yourself and win over (make other one understand) you are the champ!!!!. But most of ours won’t all the time. Do you know where does this really break?? We couldn’t imagine right? Read on!!!!!!!!!
There are always things around us which we fail to appreciate or take things for granted. Behind the screen we think those are silly things to greet. But for the other person it means a lot. You as an individual teach the people around you unknowingly and for the loved ones they take it without any question. Because you don’t claim them to take whatever you say but if you teach them something that the other person also loves it because you love it. It should be appreciated for ever. If you don’t that’s where other person feelings sinks and gasp for it As we sail down our path we see some switch in our thoughts and we name it as expectations and maturity. Now slow down your pace of reading for this question. Have we ever thought those expectations and maturity going to affect the relations around us??? You are the champ!!!!! if you give a second thought to it. For everyone life has got its own pace and we will be definitely going to drop the one which hurts us. Of course, everyone wants to find things in positive way but, still those peoples shouldn’t be the wounds in your life.
To conclude I will put in my opinion in a whole. There is always a saying speech is silver and silence is gold this won’t hold all the time in relation unless both are in perplexity. Always openness is what expected in relation so it’s better to call a spade a spade but with some gentleness or one may bring trouble to oneself and you will find it difficult to repair the damage that has been done. There ends the problem if the other person feels it really worth taking his/her words. He/she would definitely have a thought over it. Openness is where the other part of happiness lies in relationships. It's your own responsibility to turn the tables on. Still if you keep your thoughts in the dark you will find it a hard nut to crack. So reach now or repent for ever…………
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Sunday, March 29, 2009
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